I have learned to find ways to be productive so I don't get as depressed because nothing is getting done.
I sorted through the jewelry from my mother's estate and dealt with that so it's off the to do list.
I sorted through a couple boxes every day (Hubby was okay with bringing 2 from upstairs).
I read "Cut Your Grocery Bill in Half" by Steve and Annette Economides ( aka America's Cheapest Family)
Which lead me to starting to inventory the pantry,freezers and frigs....still working on that .
I decided to post what I do each week on the back of the front door (it's right beside my desk so I see the back of it most the time) of what I did to be frugal.
This week's frugal choices was to go through the check book and see where there were "leaks". I stopped some automatic pays that we no longer use saving $30.00 a month. We found spray paint on sale (patio furniture need painted) and with a rebate.
We ate every night except Friday from the pantry. Friday we went over to the Inn Between Tavern and got the all you can eat fish special.
I made laundry fabric softener and laundry stain remover.
I joined the Money Saving Family (AKA America's Cheapest family). Yes that was spending some money but by using one of their grocery tips I can have that money back in one month.
I read "Brother,Can You spare a Dime" by Tony Sakkis. It's about feeding yourself on $5 a week. Ramen noodles yes, but a lot of variety that makes it no different than serving spaghetti once a week or substituting pasta instead of the Ramen noodles. I eat Ramen noodles without the seasoning package and broth with butter and powdered garlic when I am sick...of course I also eat a sausage patty with horseradish cream sauce and Swiss cheese on a thin bagel when I am sick. My doc thinks I must be really sick especially when I mention craving Chinese food and Taco Bell.
I read "Once a Month Cooking" by Mimi Wilson and Mary Beth Lagerborg. I used to do this when Hubby and I first got together and combined our family. It was a mind and time saver when 5 of the kids was in sports and Hubby was also playing ball, coaching and umpiring.
I read Michelle Obama's book "American Grown"
Made lots of notes and plans for the house and the gardens for when I got well and back on my feet.
Now I just have to pace myself so I don't trigger anything which comes to today's job of reworking my routines.
On my bulletin board (actually a lime green foam board cut in half and doubled) I have posted the old work schedule for housewives. Monday wash day, etc.
I have also used Flylady's schedule. Neither are working for me at this time. I made some notes on what I saw wasn't getting down and what I needed more or less time for the past month. So today I am going to sit down and rework my routine and try it for a month. Since that's also adding in the gardens ( over 1,000 sq ft when you put in the gardens around the house foundations) and yard work.