Yes I even did math trying to figure if I should break the grocery money down per week or month or bimonthly and NO it didn't help me go to sleep, that happened around 3 when I might as well got up AND Rascal woke me up at 7 even though Hubby had let him out and dealt with fresh water and food.
This morning over coffee I talked to Hubby about how huge the list was and then stopped because of the look on his face...then it clicked...it's OCTOBER and every OCTOBER I am on overload between the gardens,getting ready for winter, weather changing back and forth triggers pain, pain and not eating right and not getting good sleep triggers my Crohn's and this year I focused on filling the pantry completely now instead of filling it in Nov/Dec/ Jan as he reminded me of pork for New Year's Eve and Day.
SO...
First I have several medical appointments on top of my therapy I need to stay on top of and along with that is quick simple meals for dinner that I don't have issues with and WITHOUT eating out.
We decided on 3 things concerning the pantry...
First we will not buy anything unless it is a need and we BOTH agree it's a need. We have already agreed on what is left that is NEEDED to be stocked in the pantry. We also talked over what we think of as Fresh produce/dairy needed on a weekly/ 10 day/ bi weekly (haven't figured that one out yet) time frame and still are figuring out what is reasonable for fresh food.
I highlighted what is needed on the pantry list... we could go without it but it would make things a lot rougher. Most of them are at Sam's club and we usually go to a certain Steak house for Hubby's birthday and Sam's club is right across the street. A steak at Lock 16 in Lima OH for his birthday and Prime rib for Christmas eve is the only thing he ever asks for.
Third, we would be using a lot of ideas/menus from Brandy http://www.theprudenthomemaker.com/
Fourth, I would keep better track of the savings http://thecouponproject.com/downloads/savings-tracker/ I have used this savings tracker for years.
I checked the weather forecast for the next 10-14 days and it's decent even if we get the rain (PLEASE) that they are forecasting. SO for those days the work..yard/gardens/weatherization will be done. The week of the 16th Hubby will be taking classes for his EMT recert on 1st shift I will focus on inside the house (weatherization, winter bedding, etc)and sewing the winter curtains.
My goal is to have this workload completely before Nov 1st when Nanowrimo starts for those that want to write books and need support to get it in gear. https://nanowrimo.org/ AND start on Thanksgiving and Christmas.
Blessed Be
Oh, those sleepless nights! My familiar companions, unfortunately. And, just when I get back asleep, it's time to get up!
ReplyDeleteGood luck getting your list filled. Here's something that works well for me: Put a little money in an envelope in a drawer for those things that you might forget, and then go buy it if you just can't do without it. For me, that gives me less anxiety when I know that's there "just in case." I put some $ in all winter and spring last year for summer, and ended up having quite a bit in there by the beginning of summer, where my husband would be without pay for 3 months (school job) and never had to use most of it. But, just knowing it was there was helpful to me. Even when I prepare the best I can, I always feel like I'm forgetting something.
There have been other years in the past where I've stocked up greatly in the spring and haven't shopped much at all all summer. It sounds like you will be without pay for less than a summer. I think you're doing great on your project and will sail through without problems. I'm rooting for you!
We have cash in small bills just not a lot. A friend that lives in Alabama told us to keep some in small bills because if a tornado goes through the ATMs and credit/debit card machines will not work.
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