He was 93 May 3rd. Relieved it is over for him as it has been a horrible two weeks of dying inch by inch . Relieved for my brother that I know he was paying for some of the care out of his own retirement and he didn't want me to know about it or how much.
Daddy will always be with me, he taught me to garden and preserve. He taught me to sew and repair. He taught me to cook.
But Lord, I miss the hugs, the kisses, him calling me at bedtime to talk over our day.
Tomorrow Brother and I go to make arrangements...Daddy did most of it 8 yrs ago when Mother died and I spent Thanksgiving writting her obit. I was surprised he didn't do it when my step mom died several years before that.
We took a hit with storm that came through right before we pulled in , 34 mph winds took out the glass picnic table, 3 potted plants and the outhouse... I don't think the outhouse is going back up. Seemed fitting for the damage to be today after almost 2 wks of no rain.
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I am sorry he died but glad it is over for him if he was suffering. Good for your brother!
ReplyDeleteI know so many people who lose their glass picnic tables to wind and storms. I think the one i got from the side of the road is glass. At least it was free if it is broken. I think i would put the outhouse back if it is usable. Even if it is not, it would be quaint. I suppose only three plants is good.
I hope the funeral and all the sad times pass well.
I am sorry to read that your Dad died. It is good that your brother will be there with you to make arrangements for your Dad.
ReplyDeleteMy Dad died in February, and I am still grieving. I had taken all kinds of photographs out of photo albums and storage drawers to use for his memorial video. The photos are all still on our couch where I put them when we got home from the funeral. Several times I have started to put them away and just haven't been able to get it done. Since we don't have any company coming here because of the virus, I haven't forced myself to get it done.
You had such a close, and loving relationship with your Dad. That is wonderful. He will always be nearby, in a way, all you have to do is think of him and how good he was to you, and how much he loved you, and he is there still in spirit, right with you.
Take care.
I am so sorry.
ReplyDeleteIt is hard to lose our Daddy, no matter our age. I hope you can remember the good times and the love and laughter.
Sending hugs
Yes, much sympathy for you that your dad came to the end of his journey. That he taught you all those things simply boggles my mind. My father was violent and frightening, so treasure those memories. I think you got very, very lucky.
ReplyDeletethat was mother... she was bipolar, split personality narcissist
DeleteIt's hard to lose your Dad. Mine is just gone about 6 weeks now. Mostly I am remembering my amazing childhood with a Dad who loved to have fun and taught us so many things just because he loved to impart knowledge to us. We never had much money but we have so many good memories.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful father.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about the loss of your dad. I lost my dad almost 5 years ago. I miss him so much every day. On the plane home from Oregon (where he and my mom lived) I wrote down all the lovely memories and wonderful things my dad taught me. Sayings, funny things, you name it. Any thing that I wanted to remember. I have that list still and have added to it over the years. Right after he passed I started finding dimes every where I went. I would just look up and say, "Thanks dad. I miss you too" Even now I find them when I miss him so much on a day. He loved change especially dimes and would always ask me if I brought my dimes up for him when I would visit. So it gives me comfort and a positive thought when I find one. Remember all the lovely things your dad taught you and sharing your day. He is forever in your heart. Take care.
ReplyDeleteBless you Juls...I am so sorry for your loss of your dad. I know he meant the world to you and I'm glad he lived long so you could really absorb his wisdom.
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry about your Dad and know you will miss him.
ReplyDeleteWeather- we got 4 inches rain yesterday and are getting another storm right now that might have wind and hail too. I’m very thankful for a snug home right now.
So sorry for your loss. It's tough to lose a parent no matter how old we are. Hoping you find peace and comfort
ReplyDeleteI'm hoping you have many memories to bring you smiles. My thoughts are with you.
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